The holiday season is a time of joy for many people. Some, however, dread and struggle through this time as the whole holiday experience can be exhausting. While it may not be possible for people to control the situation around them, they can practice individual Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills to navigate through the difficulties of the season and make the holidays enjoyable.
If you want to create a more stress-free and enjoyable season for yourself and others, keep these skills in mind.
This core mindfulness skill is about completely immersing yourself in what you’re doing at the moment. Practicing this skill allows you to gently let go of distractions so you can get back to who you are during the holiday season.
Always remember that you can participate either in misery or stress or in the various opportunities for joy that the season brings to people.
Build Positive Experience (BPE)
BPE begins with being mindful of positive events happening around you. People sometimes miss opportunities for connection or fun as they drown in their worries and problems. Take advantage of the positives that are possible this season. Some things you can do to build positive experiences are:
- Watch time-honored films
- Listen to your favorite holiday music
- Schedule times for community functions, get-togethers, and other events
Attend to Relationships (A2R)
Relationships are similar to plants. When you do not water them, they wither and die. So, take the time to practice A2R. Send pictures or cards to your loved ones. Alternatively, connect with people by Skype, phone, or in person. The important thing is to let the important people in your life know that they matter to you.
If you believe you need or can benefit from DBT in Westport, CT, schedule a DBT session with The Center for Cognitive and Behavioral Health. We will work closely with you to create and implement a personalized treatment plan.
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